Using AI to Market Your Firm: Don’t Forget the Emotional Intelligence
If you’re like most solo and small firm lawyers I talk to, you already have a lot of your marketing in place. Your emails are drafted. Your newsletters are queued up. Your ads, social media posts, and website updates are ready to go. And thanks to AI like Copilot or ChatGPT, you can now create all of that faster than ever before.
But speed and volume don’t always translate into results.
What I see over and over again is this: lawyers are using AI to generate marketing content quickly, but something still feels off. The words are there. The structure is solid. Yet the message doesn’t quite connect. It doesn’t sound like you. And more importantly, it doesn’t sound like a human being your ideal client wants to trust.
That’s usually because two critical tools are missing from the process: emotional intelligence and public relations.
Why AI Alone Isn’t Enough for Law Firm Marketing
AI is incredibly powerful. It can outline articles, draft emails, suggest headlines, and even write entire campaigns in seconds. Used correctly, it can save hours each week and eliminate the dreaded “blank page” problem.
But AI has a blind spot.
It doesn’t know what it feels like to sit across from a nervous client. It doesn’t remember the first time you had to deliver bad news. It doesn’t understand why someone finally picked up the phone to call a lawyer after months of hesitation.
That’s where emotional intelligence comes in.
Before you publish any AI-generated content, you need to ask a simple question: does this sound like it came from a person, or does it sound like it came from software?
Emotional Intelligence: The Missing Ingredient in AI Marketing for Law Firms
Emotional intelligence, or EI, is what turns competent marketing into compelling marketing. It’s the part of your message that shows that you understand what your audience is feeling, not just what they’re searching for.
Your target market doesn’t just want information. They want reassurance. They want to feel understood. They want to know that the person behind the words has been where they are, or at least truly understands their concerns.
When you add EI to AI-generated content, you show that you are a human being, not just an attorney sending out another digital message. You reveal personal insights. You acknowledge uncertainty. You speak to fears, frustrations, and hopes that don’t always show up in keyword research.
For many lawyers, this part feels uncomfortable. Depending on your personality and beliefs, sharing emotion or personal perspective may feel risky or unnecessary. Law school didn’t exactly train us to lead with vulnerability. But in modern marketing, especially AI marketing, this is what creates connection.
Without EI, AI-generated content may be accurate, but it’s forgettable. With EI, it becomes relatable.
Using Generative AI Without Losing Your Voice
The goal isn’t to abandon Generative AI. It’s to use it more intelligently.
Think of AI as your first draft assistant, not your final editor. Let it help you organize ideas, clarify structure, and speed up production. Then step in and layer your voice on top. Add the story about a real client interaction. Share an insight you’ve gained after years in practice. Acknowledge a concern your audience may be afraid to say out loud.
This is where AI becomes a multiplier instead of a replacement. You still get efficiency, but you don’t lose authenticity.
When you do this consistently, your marketing starts to feel less like advertising and more like a conversation.
Public Relations: Turning EI Into Trust
Once you’ve infused emotional intelligence into your content, the next step is public relations (PR).
It isn’t about press releases or media appearances. At its core, PR is about how you communicate with all of your audiences over time. It’s the ongoing story you tell about who you are, how you think, and why you do what you do.
When you take personal stories and emotionally intelligent insights and weave them into your newsletters, blog posts, videos, and social media, you position yourself as both an expert and a person who genuinely wants to help.
That combination is powerful.
In a crowded marketplace, technical competence is assumed. What sets you apart is relatability. When you consistently add EI and PR thinking to your AI-driven marketing, you stop sounding like every other firm using the same tools. You stand out as the human being people want to work with now and remember later.
The Real Opportunity With AI Marketing for Law Firms
AI isn’t going away. In fact, it’s becoming table stakes. The real opportunity isn’t just using AI to create more content faster. It’s using it better.
Law firm owners who learn how to combine AI efficiency with emotional intelligence and thoughtful public relations will win attention, trust, and loyalty. They won’t just publish more; they’ll connect more.
And connection is what turns readers into clients.
If you want to learn how to up your game on your use of generative AI, I invite you to take the next step. Click here to register for my Generative AI Boot Camp, a self-guided 30-minute course designed to help you use AI more effectively while keeping your marketing human, authentic, and aligned with your values.
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